Joshua Doumani 

Joshua Doumani is a trauma and relationship strategist working at the intersection of psychology, nervous system regulation, faith, and leadership. For over a decade, he’s entered the places most people avoid: marriages on the edge, leaders burning out in silence, and high-functioning adults collapsing behind their competence. His work reveals the hidden patterns driving perfectionism, people-pleasing, and emotional disconnection, then gives people practical tools to change those patterns at the level of identity, not just behavior. A former pastor for 11 years and a specialist in attachment, trauma, and adult relational dynamics, Joshua helps people understand why they love the way they love, fight the way they fight, and shut down the way they shut down, and how to rebuild without abandoning themselves in the process. He’s known for telling the truth without shaming anyone. His style is calm, direct, and deeply protective of those who’ve spent their lives holding everything together and calling it “love.” Today, Joshua works with couples, executive leaders, churches, and teams to build cultures of emotional safety instead of survival and fear. His core message is simple: Real leadership isn’t about performing strength, it’s about building cultures where people can be human, safe, and fully alive.